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We are getting married!!!! Ok, I will give you some background information you should know: Yes, you are right, there are more men in Russia than women, at least in this age category. Above the age of 65, there are more women than men. So why are Russian women, looking for a 'foreign' man The above question has more than one answer, I will give you a few: In Russia it is part of the Russian culture normal that women marry very young.
They already marry from age 18, most of the women are married between 18 and 23 years and they sometimes already have 1 or 2 children too. If a Russian woman is not married before 25, then she will be considered as 'strange' or weird. Another reason is that very young Russian women very early starts 'hunting' for their future husband, because they are afraid to be left alone, that they will be too old if they are not in time to find a husband.
Because of this reason you also will see that many Russian women already are divorced at a comparing to Western standards very young age. Being divorced in Russia is not a good start to find another man in Russia. All these reasons has everything to do with the Russian culture. Just 'living together' is sometimes not a possibility in relation to the Russian culture.
If two young people want to live together, then they should be married first. For this reason, Russian women are looking for a foreign men with possible marriage. To be married first or being officially engaged, when living together, is still very important for a Russian woman. You really must respect this part of their culture. Don't try to convince her that 'living together' is almost the same as 'married together', because in Russia it's not the same. Another important reason is, that at this moment, young Russian people start to change their 'old' culture customs.
Especially young Russian men are waiting longer before they are thinking about marriage. This fact gives the young Russian woman a reason to look 'somewhere else', because they are afraid that when the Russian men is ready for marriage, there will be not enough men for her to 'choose'. The young Russian woman doesn't want to wait for this.
A next very important reason is, that many Russian men have no job, no money, no future and as a result for that, drink a lot, which causes many decease's, and unfortunately, many Russian men will die too early read the above figures. For the Russian women, this is not an acceptable situation or future she is waiting for.
Concerning a certain age-group among the Russian women, you can say that Russian women between the age 30 and 45 are condemned to stay alone. There is almost no Russian man who is looking for such an 'old' woman. I know it sounds crazy, but unfortunately, it's true. Another possible reason is the fact that Russian women don't have any faith in the economical future of Russia, although the Russian economy is recovering slowly, for the Russian women, it's developing too slow.
Russian women are in general high educated persons and hard workers and they also want to use their education in a normal economical atmosphere. Russia still has a long way to go to accomplish this and the women have not enough time to wait for this, because in time they will be too old to find a man. The final reason for women who are looking for a foreign man, is a combination of the above.
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The economical reason in combination with finding a trustful foreign husband. What are Russian women looking for? In general all Russian women are looking for a trustful, reliable, healthy and respectful husband who lives a normal life under normal circumstances with an acceptable financial living standard to support a family under normal conditions. I use the word 'normal' many times, I want to express that these women are not specific looking for rich men.
They don't need 2 cars, a TV in every room, 2 boats, 2 houses and 5 times a year a holiday. But they are also not looking for a man who likes to drink a lot or uses drugs now and then or don't have enough means to support a family or is just lazy, or being only a housekeeper after he finally married her.
And they certainly are not looking for a one time adventure. Maybe you ask yourself why Russian women sometimes write down these specific qualifications. For me this answer is very easy.
If you meet some woman in your 'own' neighborhood, she will find out by herself how you are living, what kind of man you are, what kind of job, hobbies, interests you have, how you clean your house is and how you iron your shirts.
But for Russian women this is more difficult, she only can 'know' these things because you are 'writing' this to her. She actually cannot 'see' it by herself, she lives too far away for just a short visit which for the US is impossible to doto see e.
For this reason, Russian women will ask you many times about these things, and if not, you should tell her these things by yourself. These items are very important for her, because she needs to create the right or correct image of the man she intends to live with. The one's that might aware or unaware disappoint you: But unfortunately there is also a very small group of most of the times very young Russian women who only are looking for a 'ticket' green card to the US or other Western country.
Most of these young women are even not aware of the 'impossible' future they try to create. You can recognize these women if you have a normal knowledge of human character. These women doesn't want to take month's before they want to meet you preferable in your country and without detailed knowledge about what kind of man you arealso these women don't mind at all if you are 20 years or more older than they are.
And usually they will not talk or write about very profound personal interests or very private matters. In fact they act sometimes like high school girls, are already writing that they love you in their third letter and are not afraid to talk about money.
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They will often tell you that they are really looking forward to 'live in your country', instead of saying 'living with you'. It is not self-evident that these women are 'scams', they are just too young to know that most of these large-age-difference relationships not always work out as they expect to be.
The first line I wrote to my current husband was: They can make your head going out of control. Imagine, a 21 beautiful young woman, a really knock out, who is in love with an 43 year old western man. If this will ever happen to you, please ask yourself, why this very young woman is attracted to a much older man? After that, ask her the same question and try to evaluate her answers about this fact, and talk with others e. Of course there are many examples that this age difference really can work, but to be honest and not to discourage you, I interviewed different Russian women about this subject and they all answered that they in general prefer men of their own age.
Of course they don't mind reasonable age difference more than western women dobut like I said, in an acceptable way. My husband is 9 years older than me and I have no problem with that, beside that, we both have reached an age above 35 that we made our decision based on mutual mature life experience.
There is a big difference between an age difference for example, she 20 and you 40 then for example, she 35 and you Just try to keep it within reasonable age difference, I thought you are looking for a Russian 'wife' and not for a 'daughter'? How can I recognize these kind of 'women'?
These women are most of the time very young comparing to your age She tells you how nice it would be to live in your beautiful 'country', instead of telling you how nice it would be to live with 'you''. In general, she wants to come to your country very soon, but not for you as the main reason. The real bad 'guys': And there are also women and men who work in an organized way. They almost never 'work' alone and can be very convincing to you that they will be the perfect wife for you.
In fact these 'women' are often 'men' faking like you are corresponding with a real woman. But sometimes it also can be a real woman who is trying to fraud you. I know a story of a man who visited a woman after she invited him for the first time in Ukraine but this also can be Russia or other CIS country and this woman arranged for him with help of some 'friends' an apartment and other practical matters.
Then she showed him a lot of fake very expensive bills and asked him to pay her. When he didn't want to pay this crazy and unacceptable amount of money, she blackmailed him by threatening him to go to the local police, if he didn't want to pay her. Of course he had no choice, because you never know how many people are involved in this kind of 'fraud' and he never would have had any chance or even worse.
How can I recognize these kind of 'persons'? In many ways, but I give you a few identifications: A single identification doesn't automatically means that she is a 'scam', but more than 3 combinations is enough information to start to be cautious.
But any 'money' issue, especially if she is asking for it or if she takes the initiative to talk about money, is considered as an important identification of possible scam. So, should I stop looking for a Russian woman? Does it scares you? Please don't, it's only a minor part 0. Don't get paranoid about this, you can do many things by yourself to avoid a possible scam and if you do it right, it doesn't need to cost you a lot of money. Always try to be positive, don't think that behind every corner there will be someone waiting for you to get rid of your money.
And do not forget that many Russian women are afraid for the same thing too. It's not only the 'women' who are trying to 'play' with men, there are a lot of weird Western men too, who just are looking for some 'action' or a one time adventure with a beautiful Russian girl or woman and just drop them like dirt when they don't need them anymore.
One of my best Russian friend has had this kind of experience with an American man. So, both parties man and woman will be insecure and cautious, before they 'open' themselves completely to each other.
How can I protect myself from unreliable women: Ok, I know this sounds stupid, but this could be a 'safe' way to start your journey to find yourself a trustful and reliable woman. If you are looking for a cheaper and also safe way: Don not lose you common sense and use your common knowledge of human character and always keep both feet on ground Many men lose their heads if they see a picture of a real knock-out, especially if this knock-out is interesting in him. It looks like they are drugged and it will take away their 'feelers' that should warn him when he scents 'danger'.
The world looks pink to him and walks on clouds, but he doesn't notice that he is already taking his wallet to help this young beautiful woman who lives in such a 'cruel' world called Russia. Ok, I know I am exaggerating, but be warned, this kind of people can really use very credible stories to convince you their reliability, by using very dirty tricks. Forgive me for saying this, but I am a woman and allow myself to say this men in general can be very naive during moments they should be very attentive.
Read her letters like it is your employment contract I receive often questions of men who are suspicious about their current contact with a lady.
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When I start to ask more information about the correspondence and receive copy of letters, I very often can recognize possible scam. You should do this too, just to 'learn' how these people write their letters. Ask the woman to explain to you why she likes you and what she is really looking for. This question can be very important for you.