Goal easily accomplished by a simple story-like process. Make easy money from foreign men by telling stories of money needs.
Taken from a billboard: This section covers the range of Thai girls, from mainstream Thai ladies to bargirls and other prostitutes, in an attempt to help all kinds of people.
Notably, while I myself have always lived and mostly hung out in mainstream outer suburbs of Bangkok except the first 5 months I was hererather than the tourist and expat entertainment centers, I know both realms quite well, and I nonetheless do not judge bargirls or that line of professional services as "bad" in general, nor do I believe that what's right for myself is "right" for all guys, tourist or expat. There are advantages and disadvantages to both, and it's a matter of your lifestyle, situation and values.
In any case, it is important to see the differences between the foreigner-oriented subculture areas and mainstream Thai ladies. While I see the differences in most ladies right away, most guys I go around with are obviously unattuned, usually guys whose "formative experiences" with Thai ladies were in the prostitution zones.
A lot depends on one's "born in" environment, alternatives, age, genetic appearance, upbringing, lifestyle, preferences, values, interests, etc. Whichever serves you best. It's your free will, and everyone's different. Thailand is a relatively free, live-and-let-live, relatively nonjudgemental and understanding country. As long as one is not harming others, and has only good intentions, then live and let live.
It is intended that this guide will help you to positively understanding Thai culture and its different "sectors", so that you can find the best match es for what is best for your life. It is important that you understand the differences between foreign culture and Thai subcultures as regards girlfriends and acquaintances.
In my opinion, the "fault" is often the man's, not the lady's, though it varies from one failed relationship to another, even if the "fault" is more or less a lack of understanding by the man. Commonly, there is danger of outright scams to get the foreigner guy's money, whereby the lady is clearly the guilty one, of being grossly dishonest and tricky, such as agreeing to a monogamous relationship while behaving otherwise, and just after the guy's money, often careless of the havoc they wreak on the guy's life, children, wife, and business responsibilities.
Bad news travels much further than good news, and it's my observation that a lot of the negative internet traffic is out of proportion with the positive side of overall reality. Surely, most happy guys are not out on bargirl forums, but I think it's also just the nature of the internet and news in general to be negative and sensational, keeping peoples interest and juices going.
It is a fact that many ex-bargirls become faithful and good wives. I know of many. However, the majority do not, and trickery is common. A mainstream Thai lady is usually monogamous by her very nature.
However, a mainstream lady might not be a good match to you. You might want multiple girlfriends instead, enjoy some diversity and freedom, not care about the Thai family life, bored and restless with the Thai mindset while headstrong in your own ways and routines, etc. Nevertheless, the pitfalls of relationships with Thai ladies are not limited to bargirls, as "mainstream" Thai ladies vary as much as mainstream ladies do in your own country.
Most mainstream Thai ladies are faithful, and money's usually not a big issue, but not always, and there are a lot of other things to consider in both friendship and mating relationships. This general discussion will continue below the following services which we suggest.
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Such "insurance" can be well worth the peace of mind or else the cutting of your losses. For discreet private investigative services, e. In both discreet surveillance and interactive tasks, a Thai lady matched to each task is usually better accepted than a man.
That website includes some interesting case studies -- investigation experiences journaled there! However, some cases require a foreign man -- such as entering a go-go bar and operations there, where a Thai lady cannot go non-employees. I would strongly suggest that you use only a truly reputable private investigator.
You can find a lot of people who have used them. Particularly as regards bargirls, sending lots of money -- a Thai lady "investment without investigator" -- is risky business indeed. Another issue is the Thai-English language barrier. Are you establishing a relationship with thorough enough communications? Language barriers in communicating concepts completely is a challenge, and it is important to make sure you understand each other on important issues rather than be limited in what you can say and still be understood or misunderstoodso that you form the best bond.
Thai ladies have many natural advantages over Western ladies, but language can be a serious limitation. A quality translation service can help you two establish the initial bond.
For occasional Thai-English translations of important e-mails and other documents, try www. Their young translators have university degrees in English and do professional translations, so the quality is good, but they also do love letters, which is considered light and refreshing to them.
They are happy for this link. If you rely on an internet cafe translator for a former bargirl, you run two risks. One is that the "translator" is actually a "bargirl dependant" the bargirl is her customer, not you for writing love letters, so that you are actually corresponding with the translator as much as your girlfriend, possibly getting the translator's standard responses and writings, more or less.
Secondly, some internet cafe translators actually don't have a very good English vocabulary especially slang. January 22, Hi, From Joe Inbox Attachment: At first I think I have to say that I am new in internet and I have only good intentions. I think I should tell you about me, my interests,tastes and hobbies. I think I will tell you about things I want to know about you and you will know my future questions.
I am 25 years old,my birthday is March, 25, I so much don't want to get older ,when I can see old women I am getting crazy to think that it is my future. I do all the best to keep my youth and I keep my body well. In spite of all difficultes here I am trying to be in good condition and I do a lot of exercises to be in good shape! I am about cm tall 5. I've been told I look well enoughand I think that all women have own beaty. I have one youngest sisters and it is great problem for us because we have only two rooms flat.
All young people leave towns to search great luck in big cities but nobody waits for them there. I want to leave Russia,I know it sounds ugly but I know that I will be lost here like many young girls before me. It is not place to grow children and have stable future. I want to meet my right man. I think in future I can work as fitness trainer I have a certificate. My mother is my great problem too,she has a great dream to see me married and she wants to make me happy but I think it is only my business I am not a little child.
She tells me every day that I should get married very soon To be fair I am not sure I am able to explain all in first message I want to say so much! I just want you to know that I am not afraid to work,I am fairly goal oriented and I am sure you will be not disappoined to meet me in real life. I am going to spend three months abroad to work in any good place,agency promises to help me because it is only the way I can leave Russia.
I will have all documents to travel in a few days and i will travel to moscow then,from moscow I will travel to you and they ask me about name of the city i am going to work, if you don't mind to meet me please tell me the name of your nearest international airport!
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I will book my flight from moscow! I think it would be so great to meet my love and stay there forever. I know that it is not so easy like I think but I think it is possible that I meat my real love. I want to love and to be loved I want to build our own happiness,only me and my man there. I don't smoke,I tried to smoke when I was younger.
I may have a glass of red dry vine,sometimes it helps to relax. I try to take care of my body and face.
I know it is all I have. My soul may have any itnterst for you later, I thinkso. I am not a little girl and I know that at first almost all men look at body ,legs and face.
God created males such persons. Well,I think I am lost in my letter,I am not sure you understand my goals,please feel free to ask.
I live in Russia,town Olha, Lenina street 6, flat 19 ,it is near big city Irkutsk. My town is rather far from Moscow. Moscow is a capital of my country. I want you to reply if you understand my mind,my intentions,my soul,if not please reply too, I will continue my searching.
Well, I will close this letter,I think you are tired to read it. I write from internet cafe in Irkutsk because there are not cafes and possibility to use internet in my small town,we have 4 digital phone number and we can't call abroad. Even to call in any big town here in Russia I have to order the call in advance.
Well,I have to stop or I will write without ending.
In my next e-mail I will write you more things about myself and more details about my trip and work. I will miss you, your Wera Email 4 Hello my dear Joe I am so glad to see your letter again,I think I am a lucky girl to meet such man and I will do my best to meet you in real life!
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The agency will also suggest some places to work in. I do hope I have met my right man! I have one great lack,I am very impatient sometimes I can act without thinking.
Sometimes I think that my dream is getting for real and it is so bad to be disappointed later. I want you to know all small things about me because it shouldn't be any misunderstandings between us.
I want you to know that I am not angel and sometimes I can show my character. And I don't wait that you to be angel too, I just want to meet a kind man. I am very kind and I can forgive almost all I can't forgive if my man sleep with different woman, I don't know many nessesary words in english. I hope you can read between lines. A little more about myself! I wanted to be as fitness trainer but I finished The Irkutsk State Univercity, trainers faculty as fitness trainer but I don't work on my profession because there are no good fintess clubs in my city, I used to sit at home and to do all housework,helping my mom.
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I would like to have good job, I may work dancing teacher, or trainer of fitness,you know I have a certificate. I worked as a trainer a year ago. Alot of competition here. I want to tell you about things I like: I like to make barbecue and I so much want to have my own home with fireplace. I like warm weather. Also I want to tell you about my dislikes: I hate our long winters it seems to me they will never end.
I hate lies and unfaithfulness. I hate evil people and politicans I think they like to play wars, I hate any ars. What I like in a man: He has to be open- minded and open-hearted, also easy-going. Are you kind and gentle man?????